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Can You Move Past Anxiety?

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Anxiety is something that shows up uninvited and then refuses to leave, but moving past it doesn't require a dramatic overhaul of your life. Moving past anxiety starts with making small choices, calming choices that help you to feel grounded again. A gentle start when it comes to anxiety is how you're going to move forward into the future and be able to let it go entirely.

How you handle anxiety is going to be as individual to you as it would be to anybody else. For some people that can include quiet rituals in their day like sipping hot tea or journaling their thoughts or even exploring THCA infused pre-rolls as part of a personal wind down routine. The specific choice that you make to get past anxiety isn't the point, but the feeling of safety and comfort really is. When you create a soft landing for your mind, it becomes easier to face anxious thoughts without feeling too overwhelmed. It's all about understanding your anxiety rather than trying to fight it off.

One of the biggest shifts that you can make is to stop treating anxiety like an enemy. The more that you resist it, the louder it can seem. Instead, try getting curious about it. Ask yourself what your anxiety might be trying to say to you. Is it pointing to stress, fear, or uncertainty? When you listen, instead of pushing back, the intensity often begins to fade. It's like turning down the volume rather than trying to shut the whole system off. You can quiet it even if you can't get rid of it entirely.

When anxiety is present, even the simplest of tasks can feel huge, but you have to remember that it's the smallest steps that are the biggest wins. Instead of thinking about everything you need to do, focus on one small action at a time. Maybe you need to reply to 1 message, or take a short walk, or make your bed for a change. Every small win that you have builds a center of control and reminds you that you are capable, even on the toughest of days. It's all about the power of the present moment.

Anxiety often lives in the corners of the what ifs of the future. Bringing your attention back to the present can ease that spiral out. Try noticing what's around you, the feeling of your feet on the ground, or the sound of a fan, or even the tiny rhythm of your breathing. These are the anchors that pull your mind away from imagined scenarios and back to what the reality is right now, where things are usually much calmer than they seem in your thoughts. You can also allow your body to help your mind. Your body and your mind are deeply connected, and sometimes the quickest way to ease anxiety is to move.

Moving yourself out of your environment with gentle stretching, a slow walk, or even shaking out tension in your arms can release that built up stress that you're struggling with. You don't need to fight against the stress, you just need to move with it. It doesn't take an intense workout to release it, just enough movement to remind your body that it's safe and it's not in danger. Connection with your body changes everything, and so does connection with other people. 


Mike Veny

Mike Veny is a globally recognized mental health speaker and Certified Corporate Wellness Specialist® who has made it his mission to transform stigma into strength through rhythm and story. Known for his electrifying drumming keynotes and raw, real talk, Mike helps workers thrive and organizations create emotionally healthy cultures. His work bridges inclusive excellence, mental health, and professional development—and is known for producing measurable change. He has been booked by NAMI, Microsoft, Merck, and hundreds more. Mike is currently furthering his knowledge at Maharishi International University, pursuing a Consciousness and Human Potential degree. In all of his professional efforts, Mike is fiercely committed to empowering employees to discover emotional wellness and resilience so that they can accelerate personal and professional growth and avoid damaging burnout. He is also the host of a podcast called “Coffee With Mike: Mental Wellness & Belonging for Leaders.”